Let’s celebrate!

A Safer Space and a Braver Space for queer people.

At the FLINT* retreat, women, lesbians, trans*, inter* and non-binary people form a container for physicality, closeness, seeing and being seen, feeling and being felt, play, BDSM and kink. 6 days A breather from patriarchy. We move freely of attributions, body shaming and other bullshit – we create our own space.

Explore your sensual needs and potentials within a group that practices mindfully. Get to know different forms of touch and experience the echo they trigger in you. Increase your sexual self-confidence in a healing and nourishing way. Experiencethat you can decide for yourself what you invite, how far you go and what you say no to.

From massage to BDSM play, from bondage to sexological bodywork, BodyMindCentering and Contact Improvisation, various elements and practices from my 12 years of experience as a sex worker and body researcher will guide us through the week. We will break new ground, dare to cross borders, engage in connection and research.

On site we are in a legendary seminar house that will ensure our needs for safety, intimacy, comfort, concentration (and good food!).

The FLINT* retreat takes place in addition to the FLINT* workshops. On the workshop page of CELEBRATING FLINT* the most frequently asked questions about this event format are answered.

Discover the joy of your own body, your own lust, the play with identity and desire. Arrive in yourself.


Seminary house in Mecklenburg-Western Pomerania within the Mecklenburg Lakeland
(approx. 2 hrs. from Berlin/Hamburg)

Cost (6 days/6 nights, plus accommodation/full board)
Solidarity Rate: 850 Euro or a higher amount of your choice
Normal Rate: 750 Euro
Budget Rate: 650 Euro
(More infos about the different rates in the booking form)


All fields marked with a (*) are required to be filled out.

Please select the “Solidarity Rate” if you: Earn well to very well / Feel financially secure / have sufficient fiancial reserves / you can afford to enjoy several such experiences or (short) holidays a year / you find my work worth supporting. You are contributing to my planning security and possibilities, thus contributing to long-term preservation and expansion of my offer. You also enable me to show solidarity and offer cheaper prices for low-income earners.

Please select the “Normal Rate” if you: Have mediocre earnings / Can build up reserves / You can afford to enjoy 1-2 such experiences or (short) holidays a year.

Please select the “Budget Rate” if you: Have no regular income / earn very little / you could not afford such an experience at the normal rate. If you need an installment payment, please contact me and we will see what is possible.

Through years of feedback, I know about the healing and life-affirming effects that can follow from participating in what I offer. I want to keep access open to as many people as possible, because especially in structurally economically disadvantaged groups, there is often a particularly high need for sexual healing and self-empowerment. Through solidarity pricing and appreciation on the part of financially better off allies, magical spaces can be opened up for those who would otherwise have to stand in front of the door. Thank you for your support!

General Terms and Conditions *
Newsletter (sent out appr. 4 times/year) *

Your answers to the following questions are optional, but will help us prepare the event in the best possible way. THANK YOU in advance!

The booking of an event via this form is considered binding. If you have any questions before you book, feel free to email us at marlen.assistant@gmail.com.

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